What Is Tantric Massage?
A tantric massage is a caring touch full of attention and presence, without a standard kind and established outcome. Tantra massage is given from the heart. In a tantric massage, the entire body participates and erotic zones can likewise be touched. Obviously, always with respect for (mutual) limits. Tantra massage is an energetic massage where sexual energy likewise gets attention. A tantra massage occurs on the basis of equality and establishes an intimate connection between massage provider and receiver. Psychologically, physically, at heart level and sometimes even at the depths of body and soul. The function of a tantric massage is to "bring" the receiver in (the instructions of) a natural, overjoyed state of being. The impact is typically a terrific physical, mental well-being. Usually, the receiver is extremely relaxed, splendidly flowing and winding up well in the heart, and in greater spheres.
Tantric Massage is everything about Caring touch
Tantra massage is offered from the heart. A lot of touch will take location through the hands (or body to body) it is in fact enjoy that touches. The recipient is likewise present, and gets active and likewise feels (eventually) from the heart.
Loaded with attention and existence during tantric massage
A tantra massage is a caring touch loaded with attention and existence. Both the giver and the receiver are completely present. Do not think of the other day or tomorrow. Do not look around or being busy with something else, no, your complete attention is on providing or receiving the massage. A very conscious touch from the heart. Get likewise very knowingly, feeling it in your heart. Tantra massage is not about regular, set patterns are in fact out of the concern. Everything happens in the moment, in full awareness, lovingly attuned to each other and the circumstance. Dreaming away or dropping off to sleep is also not meant (still, when that's exactly what you require, it's ok).
A tantric massage isn't about an established outcome
A tantric massage will always be different. It is not the technique or the preferred sequence of rubbing that is important, it's about what is appropriate/necessary. And so the massage will be exactly that exactly what is required.
Tantric massages therefore frequently take an extremely unexpected course. Whatever suits a larger whole. A tantric massage does not always have to be "fine", ending in bliss. A "stopped working" massage can be the initial step in an excellent advancement.
How to get the very best from your tantric massage
Constantly with respect to limitations
We knew it for a long time, of course, but because the #MeToo revelations, some things have come up in the world of tantra massage. Of course, this has little to do with tantric massage.
Set clear boundaries in advance
Every person (except when you are enlightened) has his limitations. This is human and is likewise needed (check out the short article on protecting boundaries. Think in advance (both as provider and receiver) what your limits are. Ensure there is an appropriate intake, and a good preparation (also with your lover/massage partner). Set clear boundaries beforehand: about psychological limits, as well as make sure for clarity about physical limits. It is a misconception that a tantric massage must constantly be naked, rubbish. With clothes on is likewise totally ok (however hard to deal with oil then). It is likewise a misconception that a tantric massage should be concentrated on the sexual parts of the body (breasts/sex), nonsense too. Personally, we have actually given/received numerous tantric massages only on the head. Also, in addition, in fact each cell is sensual, however you will be amazed.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Activate and let flow easily
Triggering and freeing the flow of life energy (prana) is the primary part of tantra massage. In a tantric massage, the entire body takes part and erogenous zones can likewise be touched. In tantra massage we play with the activation of fundamental/ sexual/ psychological/ passionate/ love/ development/ instinctive energy.
Concentrated on the natural delighted state of being
There is a conversation going on whether tantra massage is part of "genuine" tantra. Well ... Tantra is a very practical, body-oriented movement, a vision of life aimed at growing in love and consciousness. As far as we are concerned, tantra massage is one of them.
Generally leading to a wonderful physical, mental wellness
This is likewise the case with a tantra massage. A tantra massage is typically nice, often tasty. We, therefore, invite you to totally take pleasure in receiving ánd giving a tantric massage.
What Tantric massage isn't really?
There are numerous types of massage. Naturally, all massages have specific practices and techniques in typical. Yet there is a big difference with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (targeted at relaxation).
* Sports massage (focused on the muscles).
* Sexual massage (intended at pleasure satisfaction).
* (Body) treatment (focused Tantric couples massage on recovery).
Well because you are truly super energetic during/after the massage. A tantra massage is NOT a sensual massage either. It's a kind of style these days to see tantra massage as a therapy, but therapy is a profession apart.
The basics of tantric massage.
For a detailed explanation, see the post on the fundamentals of tantric massage. In summary, the following essentials stand out:
Tantra massage suggestions-- before you begin
* Develop a warm, confutable tantric massage area (this can be done easily on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Supply good conditions (physically, however also psychologically).
* Explain contracts!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage pointers-- throughout the massage.
* Start, stay, end connected to each other.
* Always keep your attention on the massage.
* Make sure your massage is demand free, don't push or require anything.
* Open your very own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Trigger (sexual) energy and disperse it throughout the entire body.
* Don't only use your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* Occasionally ... do nothing at all! Be 1000% present. Delight in!
* Use your senses.
* Provide feedback (satisfaction noises?).
* Construct in combination (rest) minutes.
Some masseurs are more/mainly interested in exactly what they themselves discover enjoyable, enjoyable, desirable. A tantra massage is not a work task, so as a provider you can also enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. So forget your very own "requirements", remain away from your own concerns and above all ... do not attempt to require anything. Absolutely nothing has to be done, nothing is required! Again, don't attempt to impose anything (your own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! Tune in to exactly what the recipient needs. It is as it is, and it goes as it goes. Trust in love. Perhaps you are disappointed when someone drops off to sleep. You might not be waiting on a psychological cry, but a tantric massage has no goal. No intended outcome. It is what it is. Accept that.
Tantra massage suggestions-- after the massage.
* Take enough time to process, to let the massage settle.
* Require time to exchange your experiences.
* Understand that a tantric massage can have an effect for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not instantly go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 important tantra massage pointers (insights/rules).
* Don't work to a goal. We get asked all the time, it this a happy ending massage? Yes it can be, it usually is however there is no pressure for you to perform, this is about letting that energy circulation.
* Respect limits, set clear boundaries ahead of time. Our masseuses are mostly very open minded - they are naturally because of the nature of their work however they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the wishes of the recipient in mind, of course. Understand that it can turn out differently.
* It is always an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Trigger sexual energy. Stimulate the entire body. Being excited is normal and desirable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are crucial! A lot can turn up.
* Be alert to renewed freezing moments. Prevent limits from being crossed once again.
* Action by action ending up being freer ... Growing trust ... fine. Taking pleasure in the restored balance and connection between sex and heart.
* Give feedback (e.g. pleasure sounds) and provide integration minutes (simply not doing anything).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual satisfaction, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage happen?
Do not release, however recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we indicate don't rush to the climatic ending, hold it, be in the minute, let that sexual energy develop and flood your whole body.
Possible effects of tantric massage.
Gives peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you out of your head. A massage that brings peace and relaxation to your body. You will be calm and relaxed (but you will not drop off to sleep). During/after the massage it becomes peaceful in your head (in some cases entirely empty).
Brings your life energy into motion.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of wonderfully flowing life energy. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a prospective healing impact. Even though tantra massage is not the exact same as recovery, this release may recover some blockades.
Makes you soft and loving.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You end up being more caring, you learn what it is like to like yourself. You experience that everything, including your sexuality, can be there, without judgment. And that provides a splendidly liberating and deeply satisfied sensation.
Is taking pleasure in.
You will feel comfortable in your body. The combination of relaxation and a lot of energy indicates that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies. With the love improvement, you may end up being not just happy however even euphoric. An ecstatic state of being is possible. The more you give up, the much better you will feel.
In other words, tantric massage is ...
* A caring touch.
* Loaded with attention and existence.
* The entire body gets involved.
* Energetic massage, including sexual energy.
* Without basic type, without predefined outcome.
* With regard to (shared) limits.
* Establishes a (heart) connection in between the giver and receiver.
* Focused on the natural, overjoyed state of being of the recipient.
* Typically leading to a terrific physical, mental wellness (of both).